#124 Essays on Loneliness: Tethering An Isolated Writer To A Disconnected World 

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Before we continue with our regularly scheduled program, I want to let everyone know that I will be on Wade Rouse/aka Viola Shipman’s Facebook Live Wine & Words with Wade today at 6:30 pm ET. We will dish about everything and I’m such an admirer of Wade and his work. You can see him on the podcast in episode #104– he writes it all– memoir and novels. and has a new book coming out called The Page Turnerthat I can’t wait to read. Tune in from the Viola Shipman Facebook Page. Would love to see you!

Also, check below to secure your spot for my 6-week Zoom personal essay class in May, now open.

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An Exciting Episode

I’m thrilled to bring Athena Dixon on the program. I first met Athena at the Split/Lip Press booth at the AWP conference in Kansas City in 2024, where I was on a panel and also was a mentor in the Writer to Writer mentor program. I was struck by Athena’s kindness and talent and knew I wanted her on the the podcast to talk about craft and her memoir-in-essays collection, The Loneliness Files.

In This Episode

  • How the Pandemic pushed Athena into writing essays
  • The extreme loneliness epidemic in our country
  • The influence of her fanfiction fixation on Athena’s writing and ability to daydream a new reality
  • How Athena explored loneliness in throughlines of grief, the concept of a “split self”, and journals
  • Why she used a multi-tiered braided essay in the collection
  • How she used the vessel of the body to play with the fear of the heart
  • Athena’s editorial work with Fourth Genre and Split Lip Press
  • Her use of intention and ritual as a roadmap for bringing romance to fruition
  • Keys to figuring out the right format for your stories, when deciding between memoir or a memoir in essays 
  • Advice for identifying a strong throughline in your essay collection
  • Why Athena now values her loneliness and moments of isolation as a tool in her tool kit

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About Athena

Athena Dixon is the author of essay collections The Incredible Shrinking Woman and The Loneliness File and her work appears in publications such as Harper’s Bazaar, Shenandoah, Grub Street, Narratively, and Lit Hub among others. She is a Consulting Editor for Fourth Genre and the Nonfiction/Hybrid Editor for Split/Lip Press.

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So happy to see my  Zoom class student Linda Maltz Wolff’s fabulous and humorous piece on grandmothers in The Boston Globe. Brava! (Gift Link)

And my former student Rochelle (who has her poignant piece she published in Next Avenue/PBS cited in my book), Unmuting a Brother-Sister Relationship One Chord at a Time, had a Tiny Love Story, called Gathering Valuables  in the New York Times (Gift Link).

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